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Success Maker III - Home Influence

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Good home influence lays the foundation for career success. Almost everything depends on a good beginning. If you need to retrace your steps you will lose time, and also confidence. "Do it right the first time," is very good advice to follow consistently. Just ask efficiency experts.

You want to build a good reputation. You want your associates, acquaintances, audience, or market to have a good opinion of you. But you need to see to it that your good reputation is deserved because the world will find out sooner or later.

Sudden wealth makes instant reputation, as it does instant friends. But in most cases, adversity is the best test of character - and friendship.

The soldier who fights for his principles is a hero, but not necessarily a success. The motive for your goal determines how much effort you're going to put in to achieve it. Selfishness may prosper but it cannot become an enduring success as that based on a willingness to help others. Your purpose will strengthen you in times of trouble and the reason you rejoice on the day you triumph.

Some may ask "Why should I work my butt off if I only have myself to live for?" This may well be a common sentiment for one who does not have a wife, partner, mother, brother, sister, children, belief, or advocacy to struggle for. One who does not feel that the effort to build character is its own reward.

To build a home is one of the greatest motivations to succeed. Everyone who loves his mother, or reveres her memory knows this. They are indeed blessed, who continue to experience the influence of a good home.

Home is the first and most important influence of character. It is there that each one receives his best moral training, or his worst. It is there that one instills his principles that endure through life. Your home training includes your character formation. It is there where most of your habits are formed, where your interest is piqued, your intellect awakened, and your character is molded for good or bad. The impressions formed in a child's mind, becomes world opinion if the child finds success later in life.

It is the nature of things that home life is preparation for participation in society at large. From family life we advance to citizenship. Where love and responsibility pervades the home, we can expect healthy, happy, and capable citizens to develop, contributing to the general welfare of society.

A good home is the best of environments, not just in youth but in old age. There both enjoy a cheerful atmosphere, a sense of civic duty where patience, self-control, and service is nurtured in one and taught by the other. The home is where you learn forbearance for another's shortcomings because you feel the same when you display your own.

A lot depends on the home, for it is the foundation of society and good government. And it is a sad commentary on our times that so many distractions are there to neglect it.

As the home affects one's character because of the people who live there, it follows that the young person who leaves his home behind, would want to associate with people who remind him of fond memories.

Home influence lays the foundation for career success.


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Success Maker 101 - Facts On Emotional Wellness And Success

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Emotional wellness basically means being in a state where a person understands their feelings and doesn't try to avoid them. Having a positive emotional wellness is a true success maker since one develops a positive approach to life, being able to approach feelings freely and effectively. This is someone who can express how they feel even though undergoing life's ups and downs is able to deal with them without stress or depression.

A person on getting to this state is able to:

Get to make personal choices and decisions based on behaviors, philosophies he/she believes in, synthesizing their feelings and thoughts to make a well organized decision that does cause people to question their judgment.

Is able to live well alone and work independently although they may occasionally seek the assistance of the other people around them. This is people who don't depend on other for advice all the time or someone who can not be able to function alone. They are able to build relationships based on mutual respect and commitment.

These individuals are able to handle challenges well with healthy reasoning. They are able to handle conflict well, being responsible for their actions and those off those around them. Taking responsibility involves knowing the consequences of their actions.

The path to emotional wellness is not difficult for individuals who are willing to accept change. It involves:

Seeking support from professionals helps gain awareness of one's thoughts and feelings with a positive attitude. These professionals will take a step to step approach to help one understand certain aspects of their life and offer suggestions of ways one can improve on them. Also one needs to understand that we all make mistakes but it is very important to learn from them to avoid repetition for growth purposes

These sessions involves learning time management skills, time management is very important as it teaches one to be disciplined. Without time management one will always find themselves falling back on a lot of issues causing stress which is the biggest killer to emotional wellness.

Setting priorities of what is important in one's life is also part of this training as you need to know what your goals are and what is most important if you need to be emotionally stable. Failure to set priorities will mean than you lose out on a lot of issues that affect you and you will end up confused and lacking focus in life. Maintain life balance, this involves knowing how to incorporate all factors in your life. An individual needs to know there is a time for everything and how to balance life at work, at home, relationships and other important factors.

To gauge whether one is in a state of mental wellness one needs to assess if, they are able to balance their work and family time, friends and other obligations, what ways are available to reduce stress in their life, if they are able to make decisions without stress or worries, and to learn if they are able to set priorities. Ask this in question form and they will get to know if they have a good mental and success maker lifestyle.


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